Why It's Important to Communicate With Your Spouse

{Via "4 Steps to Better Communication}

We all know that guys aren't typically the ones to talk about their thoughts and feelings (but despite that stereotype) it is still essential to have an open dialogue in your marriage. Without communication you aren't friends, lovers, or spouses...you are just roommates! Communication helps to create a forum in which you are safe to talk about your fears, dreams, and frustrations with one another.
So, why exactly is it important to communicate with your spouse?

1. It Brings Emotional Intimacy
With emotional intimacy you feel secure, loved, needed, and understood by your spouse. With emotional intimacy comes physical intimacy, which will help to reinforce the love and commitment you have with your partner. This circular pattern of emotional and physical intimacy is what keeps the flame in your relationship still strong and bright!



2. You Learn Each Others Love Language
How does your spouse feel loved? In talking with them, you can start to piece together what will make them feel loved and special (Is it acts of service? Words of affirmation? Receiving gifts? Quality time? Physical touch?). You'll then be able to readjust how you communicate and interact with them, so your spouse feels like you completely understand him/her and feels on top of the world!
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3. You Can Better Understand Him/Her
Without constant communication, how do you get to know one another? The tools of communication are something that needs practice, and they need to be used frequently in order to be refined. A simple "how was your day?" when your spouse comes home from school or work can serve as an opportunity to listen and really work to understand what your spouse is all about and what makes them tick. Then you are more prepared to react in a manner that promotes healthy communication between you and your spouse.

How do you open up the doors of communication with your spouse?